Five Tips for Entertaining with Kids - Holiday Meals Edition

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Gathering family and friends together for a holiday meal is a seasonal ritual for most of us. We invite, plan, organize, cook, clean, and then welcome guests to our home. While the adults mix, mingle and chat, the young ones in attendance typically scurry off and play before the meal is served.

Entertaining these lovely little people can be such a fun addition to any celebration, but it can also cause a touch of anxiety to the host, or possibly even the parents. Keeping everyone entertained and well-behaved isn't always easy, but here are five methods we employ to ensure everyone is happy during a holiday meal.

1. Be Sure to Serve Something Kid-Friendly

Always an essential rule for holiday meals or party planning in my books. I'm fairly familiar with the likes and dislikes of the kiddies who make their way to our home for celebratory occasions, and I always try to include them in my meal planning process. This doesn't necessarily mean I serve chicken fingers or mac and cheese,  but I try to ensure there is a commonly liked veggie on offer, fresh bread and a meat that is sure to please everyone. There is nothing worse than attending a dinner with nothing available for the kiddies to eat. If you're lucky enough to have small children who will eat anything, then this won't be an issue for you when you go to another home, but keep in mind that not all children will eat like yours. Be sure to have something familiar on hand so everyone will enjoy something to eat.

2. Designate a Special Space for the Kids to Eat

This doesn't have to be a kids table specifically, although if you have the room that can be a welcome idea for the young eaters. At our annual Christmas party, the dining table is transformed into a buffet and the kids seek refuge from the standing adults by gathering under the table to eat. They love to have a secret space to call their own and the big people can move around freely without trampling the little ones. If space for a designated kids table is an issue, set pillows out around the coffee table and let the kids sit on the floor to eat. Consider allowing the children to eat outdoors at a patio table while the adults enjoy their meal inside. In any of these situations the kiddies will be more entertained and less bored if they don't have to sit and listen to adult conversation. I can also attest to hearing some really sweet discussions taking place between a group of cousins which makes this type of seating arrangement worth any hassle it may cause.

3. Paper and Pencil Crayons are Your Best Friends

Those who know us well know we don't travel far without  a stack of paper and a container of pencil crayons. Waiting for dinner, or waiting for tablemates to finish their meal can be a boring task. Paper and colouring utensils provide a vehicle for fun games, comic book drawings, sketching, scribbling etc. Placemats can be designed, maps of the house/garden can be drawn and words games created. This is the easiest way to  keep kids of all ages entertained and happy at the table.

4. Specialty Dinnerware

I find it surprising how this simple idea can make such an impact on the kids.  My mother-in-law almost always purchases fun theme plates for the kids to use during meal time. They clamour for their favourite item in the group and happily nosh off their designer dinnerware. In our house we have small cups with built-in straws which are a favourite for all visiting children. Be sure to stock something special in your cupboard and the kiddies will feel special while dining.

5. Plan a Fun Activity or Two

This can be something for the dinner table or a reward for good behaviour. We have done trips to a nearby park, pumpkin carving, scavenger hunts, donut eating on a string, and charades. The latter is a favourite of the group and one that can be played during the meal. Place a small bowl in the centre of the table with the names of all the guests in attendance, and have each child draw one name and act as that person the entire time they are eating. This is especially funny when there is a large family gathered together. Older cousins can pair up with younger ones and good time will be had by all.

What are your tips and tricks for entertaining children at Holiday meals?

Comments

[Rachel]

Love the ideas. Will have to put some into use as our kiddos get older.

Hope you have wonderful weather this weekend for your Thanksgiving gathering!

[Vicky]

I always have fresh fruit/crackers/cheese cubes out...as I know the adults want to shmooze before dinner is served and this way the kids will be happy (ier). LOL